It's a beautiful friday 6 may 2011

Today was one of those autumn day ,where the air is chilled and the sun is shining gently.... so my day began @ 5:45 am,,, the alarm went off,,,, to which I only got out of bed at 6am.
Took a bath while listening to my son singing a..b..c..d..e..f..g... (With the twinkle little star tune) if you get what I mean...
Dropped Mr Man at crèche. Then off to work. Which was "work"... meetings here, meetings there...
Its 3:15pm and I can't wait to go home. I spoke to TJ today- always a pleasure chatting to him...made plans to hook up next week, so looking forward o that..:) Naughty smile...hehehee

Oh I’ll probable blog about this on Monday .... I seem to have a negative attitude when it comes to Mothers day.. This is on Sunday 8 May 2011..

This is my beef.

I’m a mother to a wonderful baby boy... love him to bits... but I feel it’s sad/bitter when the father of your child does not acknowledge this day.

I don’t remember getting anything special/even not special for mother’s day from my "baby daddy"= BD and yes I fully understand that he does not have to give me anything cos , we are not together, but I would think we want to teach our son to celebrate these sort of days from an early age.. So as to show him love from both side.. Just to show him that we are not enemies but two individuals who have crossed paths in a significant way...

Last year I bought "BD" a present for father’s day and I made my son scribble on it so it could have a personal touch... I did not do it coz I had received a present for mother’s day (which had already passed, but because... I wanted my son to take part in celebrating the day and show sum love to his dad.

So with all of that said , I sometimes get annoyed that "BD" does not see things my way... I’m not say he must get me a diamond necklys, imp just asking for a piece of paper with my son's hand writing written happy mother’s day....

Beside all the drama... I do wish all of the mothers, sisters, friends a lovely mother’s day....

Being a mother is a blessing... in more way than you can imagine........

Nginithanda noke emakhaya....