In my life today

I had a wonderful weekend...  BROKE and all. I spent my Friday with the Spheza.
Sat morning, sorted out my business issue-paperwork and all. I will reveal my business interest soon, when it’s taken off the ground…Then i hooked up with Mr F and an old friend Mr “30mil”. Sunday cooked up a storm and read the Sunday news papers, all in all, a fabulous weekend.  

So ...what has been done on the 2011 list?

Task	Comment	Status
Find love	I want to find a partner who will be part of my life and I part of his...........	Incomplete
Spheza School	Sphe loves his new school. Spheza amd mommy	Complete
A new JOB	It’s been a challenge to get a new job, but I know the All Might has a plan so, I’m not too worried about this.	1% progress
Phenomenal woman NGO	Trying to set up an event for Thembisa hospital, having a meeting with the matron on Friday 27 May. June we must have our 1st Phenomenal event	20% progress
Azali	Currently we (my biz partner Dee) busy trying to re-instate the company at cipro.. Busy sorting out vat, tax..Certificates…it on.. in no tym we will be running our 1st project.. whoop whoop …this is going to be big…..	20% complete
Go to cape town	Had a fabulous tym…..did some surfing with my bro Nipho. The boys lived in the pool the whole week…it was a heated pool… The views in CPT were breath taking. Nipho and i...in our surfing gear Nipho and Spheza in their new bed....they lived in the heated pool The views in cape town were breath taking..	Complete
Go to Europe or NYC	Still not too sure if this trip will be this yr, but we will see, I have so many of my friends in NYC so I would not struggle with accommodation. I just have to sort out my plane tickets…	10% progress
Save money towards my house	Jhooo…  I have not even saved a cent towards this…the trip to CPT just messed my budget up. But I will recover. I’m giving myself one month to start saving…	No progress
Save money for 30th b-day	Ok here goes,,,, I’m not interested in doing the big gala dinner for my 30th anymore…I used to go on and on about this but for some reason I have lost interest.	Under review
Finish my vision board	I have moved my vision board form the book shelves to my dressing area, so I can see it every day, hopefully It will remind me of all the good this to come in my life…	50% progress
My big 28th birthday party	Zee party was grate....everybody looked fab..even TJ was there..*blushing*	Complete

Mother's day.

Little did I know that my blog on the 6 May would have such an influence on my weekend? (Mother’s day).

 In short I had an extremely bad mother’s day, thanks’ to myself for letting one person influence my feelings.. (Dumbest thing I’ve done this year).

I found myself sad and miserable at the fact that  BD was not going to acknowledge that its mother’s day and he was not sending a present…etc .Anyway not to bore you with this BD -Mother’s day story….. I ended up not celebrating mother’s day,, and sadly the people I truly care about in my life suffered from my actions ” My mom and my son” .So lesson learned…. It’s not about what you receive but about what you give…. Sorry to My Son and Mom for being such an ungrateful daughter and mom…..

xoxo...

It's a beautiful friday 6 may 2011

Today was one of those autumn day ,where the air is chilled and the sun is shining gently.... so my day began @ 5:45 am,,, the alarm went off,,,, to which I only got out of bed at 6am.
Took a bath while listening to my son singing a..b..c..d..e..f..g... (With the twinkle little star tune) if you get what I mean...
Dropped Mr Man at crèche. Then off to work. Which was "work"... meetings here, meetings there...
Its 3:15pm and I can't wait to go home. I spoke to TJ today- always a pleasure chatting to him...made plans to hook up next week, so looking forward o that..:) Naughty smile...hehehee

Oh I’ll probable blog about this on Monday .... I seem to have a negative attitude when it comes to Mothers day.. This is on Sunday 8 May 2011..

This is my beef.

I’m a mother to a wonderful baby boy... love him to bits... but I feel it’s sad/bitter when the father of your child does not acknowledge this day.

I don’t remember getting anything special/even not special for mother’s day from my "baby daddy"= BD and yes I fully understand that he does not have to give me anything cos , we are not together, but I would think we want to teach our son to celebrate these sort of days from an early age.. So as to show him love from both side.. Just to show him that we are not enemies but two individuals who have crossed paths in a significant way...

Last year I bought "BD" a present for father’s day and I made my son scribble on it so it could have a personal touch... I did not do it coz I had received a present for mother’s day (which had already passed, but because... I wanted my son to take part in celebrating the day and show sum love to his dad.

So with all of that said , I sometimes get annoyed that "BD" does not see things my way... I’m not say he must get me a diamond necklys, imp just asking for a piece of paper with my son's hand writing written happy mother’s day....

Beside all the drama... I do wish all of the mothers, sisters, friends a lovely mother’s day....

Being a mother is a blessing... in more way than you can imagine........

Nginithanda noke emakhaya....

Its been a while.... but im back..

Procastinantion-- such a sickness..jo...i have been postponing to blog for the past 2 months... i guess i was bored to write about my hectic life(contradiction i know boring and hectic)
anyway here goes nothing..

im going to blog as it pops in my mind.so here goes...

1. I broke up with My Muntu....a week after my birthday...to cut the long story short we both realized it was not going to work coz.. we(i) did no give full commitment to the so called relationship.

2, Just came back from cape town and it was OFF THE HOOK.....the best time of my life... my son had so much fun.. i think his going to want live in CPT when he grows up.lol....

 While in cape town... i met up with sum very interesting characters.
"The Youngster, Cougar,Lol.".. those are his name.... sweet guy.. full of adventure, camps bay the worker's,....BT the work's....
"My Dawg Vuz"- very nice guy ,,,, introduced us to all he fish in cape town.... i mean all the fish.... shooo cape town has so much fish.. we went to a party on the last Friday in CPT and the was a ratio of 1:5 of women to men... so can you imagine all that fun....

We also met up with Mr Maloloooo..... aiiike i can't blog much about his coz his just controversial in his nature nje....all i can say is.. our stay in CPT was fully paid for. and we enjoyed every minute.

so now my live has to continue...

i if i look at my 2011 list i have completed 4 items on the list.

i'll be sure to review it so we can see my progress....phela that's the whole point of this blog.. to see if i can achieve all the things on the 2011 list

till next time... xoxo